Captain Jack wrote:Well, being an ex-student (you know the ones that spend, drink, spend, drink and spend), I have looooaadds of debts... Loads more than any of the above. But despite that, I have a credit card (which only has £150 outstanding on it!) and a good credit rating. Also managed to buy a house, car and lots of other crap. I've never missed a payment either, which helps maintain that credit rating so I should be OK. My finances went down the hill a bit with this new job as it costs £200 a month in diesel just to get to work and back and me crashing the bloody thing didn't help matters (bumper, paint etc..). Still... it's pay day tomorrow!
Looks like everyone has some sort of financial issues - glad I am not the only one in a pickle!
I'm in the same situation as Captain Jack... well almost:
The Story Of My Financial Life
1998: I was 18 and applied for an Orange contract phone, they wouldn't give me one because my brother had blacklisted our address, so in order to get credit I had to disassociate myself from everyone else at the address... that meant when they serch my name and address in the credit check, it only shows me as an individual and not the rest of my family... I managed to get a phone, on losing my job, I cancelled my contract early but let the contract run to an end... until 12 months was up, they disconnected the phone and advised me that they would still charge £25 per month for line rental for the next 3 months until the contract term ended.... I was fine with this! I then recieved 3 bills for calls that took place in these final 3 months, despite the phone being disconnected... unable to make or receive calls.... I refused to pay and they blacklisted me and I was unable to obtain anymore credit!
-- -- -- - Big Mess for 2 years -- -- -- -
2000: Started going out with my first girlfriend, had a great year... true love at least I thought yadda, yadda
April 2001: We split, I was an emotional wreck, I didn't take it too well... being an old romantc and niave believing all that first love is the greatest malarky! My Life started a downward spiral of self loathing and self destructive behaviour.. I was only working part time, I coudn't manage anything else in my state, I was lonley and felt like the world was against me... I turned to alcohol and casual sex as a method of getting over my first love... never a good idea!
September 2001: After picking myself up a little I decided to get back into education and do something positive with my life... after 7 years of being in and out of jobs I was a little intimidated, so I joined University, completed my foundation degree first time.... had more partying, alcohol and lots and lots of casual sex ! Still emotionally unstable I hurt the women that I slept with because they wanted more and I couldn't give them more than sex... which made quite a few women hate me! At this ponit I was working part time in BT technical support services, and I was at uni, my income was enough to obtain Car finance and so I applied for a new saxo, they turned me down... so I applied for an impreza and they accepted me, but the impreza was too old for the finance company so I had to look else where, they game me, £7500 to play with... so I brought the 406, turbo because I never knew the V6 existed....
Paid for the car and had no problems managing, didn't have much of a social life because of funds and so whilst at uni @ the freshers fair I ended up applying for a credit card, or two... ok maybe it was four!

and got myself in to a mess, I thought I could manage them, pay for 3 with one card and pay that one card cash and so on and so forth until one at a time they were cleared...
2001 - 2002: I started my degree in Computer Network....This is when it all got out of hand and my finances were a total mess, university debt was mounting and my cards, overdraft, were all over the place and I had no way of paying them... they were trying to force me to go bankrupt and trying to force me to leave university and get a full time job to pay them back.... the stress got to me and so the distructive behaviour continued, I stopped paying everything except the car... and not only the car, but repair bills, car parts, all sorts.... with no financial support from home as my folks are disabled and one is retired I had to struggle on my own.....
2002 - 2003 Life wasn't much better, I had letters from debt collection companies coming out of my ears.... constant phone calls to my mobile and folks landline... the companies were harrassing me and I did explain section 20 of the administration of justice act which applies to their behaviour, some took notice and others didn't... although this was a bad time for me, I met my now ex girlfriend and she made life a whole lot better...
2003 - present: I have lots of debt, I only own my 406, computer, and 360... I have no house, I cannot afford to move out and live on my own, I have 2 CCJ's as a result of my emotional instablity of the previous years.... I'm was getting better but now its all down hill due to another relationship split!
Most of my friends from uni have abandoned me... others have good credit, a house and a girlfriend and a future.... whilt I'm stuck with no future, no house, no GF, and worst of all currently no happiness or companionship! That's right almost a year out of uni and I'm still living at home, look at me 27 and still living at home....
I can't even get a consolidation loan my rating is that bad...
I obtained my report for free from
Annual Credit Report and boy is it a mess, I don't know how I will ever get my life back on track... financially I'm screwed for at least 6 years.... My credit is so poor, that a letting company wouldn't even entertain an application by me to rent!
So whilst you guys may think you've got it bad, just know that there are people who have it a whole lot worse !
