Isn't it funny...

[Bailes1992]

I think i'm going to send her some flowers with a card along the lines of "I don't know what on earth I've done to deserve this, but hurry up and talk to me again. I love you"

But I don't know what to send? Do I be boring and just send sunflowers or what?
Do I pop into interflora after I've been to the hospital tommorow and get something made up? Or do I just order it online. Hmmm.

[Bailes1992]

Done. Sent her some nice blue and white flowers.

See what she says to that

[DaiRees]

Good luck dude

[steve_earwig]

As Mssr. Rees says best of luck. Just don't give her too many chances, you are not a dooormat!!

[lozz]

Eminem always had the Right 'idea.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MV3EzqvD ... ure=fvwrel (!18)

Ilike the B'urning flowers part,

[Bailes1992]

Should have sent her a nice array of hand granades.
She went ape sh*t on me cause apparentley "All her family saw and the note made her out to be a %$&?". Well what the hell? You are te one being the %$&?. I haven't a clue what I've done.

Anywho I'l leave her alone till Thursday / Friday and then I'l go up there and tell her. She either sorts herself out or I'm off.
It will absolutley kill me inside but I had an op in day surgery postpone today cause my BP is through the roof which I can only imagine is due to stress.

[lozz]

Ffs women for you Huh.

you shouid of sent her a bunch of Dandelions or sumink, then shed have something to complain about,

blank her mate,

[steve_earwig]

Do Interflora do triffids?

So what's the surgery about, dare I ask?

[Bailes1992]

Do Interflora do triffids?

So what's the surgery about, dare I ask?

I have fluid around one of my testicles called a Hydrocele. It's basically like a big balloon around my testicle which is about the size of my fist. Was having it 'popped' basically.
They would slice into my sack and squeeze the testicle out, 'pop' it, remove the out layer and put it back in and stich it up

Bet you wish you didn't ask now

[Busman]

In your position, I would sugest you've done enough, now its a waiting game. Thats the hard part.

[steve_earwig]

Oddly enough it's not having the effect it should be having, probably because of all the stuff I've been through in the last couple of years

Hope you're blood pressure drops & you get it sorted soon.

[Bailes1992]

In your position, I would sugest you've done enough, now its a waiting game. Thats the hard part.

Problem is I've been with her so long, and we usually get on so well shes also my best mate now. Shes the person I go to and have a chat with about everything. Now shes playing funny buggers I don't know what to do with myself.

I did go see a friend in Nottingham yesterday who I've known for years and had a nice chat about it with her which made me feel allot better tbh.

I got pleanty of mates, but not many I would turn to and tell all my issues

[Busman]

Not easy at all. How long have you been together?

[Bailes1992]

3 years. Went through 2 years of college together by complete coincience.
We met July '09 and we both started the same course in college Sept '09 and we'd both applied to do it in the Febuary.

[rapport25]

Bailes,

Really feel for you mate. Been there done that. Flowers are a big no no. All she will do is through it back in your face. You are pressuring her etc.....

Has she put a time on " we are on a break". I'm very black and white, I think she is just keeping you dangling and it over.

Not fair one bit. As hard as it is mate. I would suggest that you start calling the shots. I would tell her that you dont want to put pressure on her And you feel things are not right. Tell her you wont contact her. She has 2 wks to sort herself out or you will be ending it.

Just put it down to a relationship that didn't work and move on. Go out with you mates and keep yourself busy. Dont dwell on whats been Lifes to short.



Good luck mate.

Rappy.