Isn't it funny...

[scotty73]

Did she go to India with mates?

Nope work, and she would never run off with anyone or think about cheeting. She's far too shy and has much better morals than that.
I think she's just having an off week or two. Hopefully I'l get some time in with her this weekend.

Cheating hadn't crossed my mind mate what i was thinking of was maybe she saw her mates enjoying themselves and thought i need some of that... She wouldn't be the first to think that way... Hopefully she's had her blow out and just needs a few days to unwind.

Typical scenario from my perspective, last Friday one of my mates went on a bike weekend and the other went to upton upon severn for a music festival and little ol me was here doing boring crap... The weather was luvly and i had the hump all weekend because it normally pisses down when i go away... Every now and then we all need a release.

Mine is next Thursday to Saturday i'll give you a wave from the train on my way to Angelsey i'll be the one with a fooking big grin and a beer in my hand.

[Bailes1992]

That is exactley what I think has happened. Shes gone out with her roomate drinking and shes decided thats what she wants to do I really hope this phase wears off soon.

[TooT]

worst is yet to come mate, wait till youve moved in with a women and see how much things change

GREAT. Me and my lass get the keys to our first house on the 17th. I have been living the bachelor life for the past 6 years. Nervous.

[Welly]

Bailes - maybe YOU have changed. Don't forget you've been very worried about being ill recently and not really knowing what's wrong, it has affected your work, you've taken a financial risk on the car, had a few troubles with it too, I don't suppose you were that keen on her going to India anyway so maybe she's been on the receiving end of your recent woes.

You need to tell here what's been worrying you, tell her that you're committed to the relationship but you need to know she is too. If there's no commitment from her then don't force it, might be time to move on. I'm pretty harsh about relationships; in my mind if you get loads of trouble, a lot of the time, then it's time to end it.

Something else; maybe her trip has opened her mind to different things in life - don't forget that in the UK things are 99% shyte for 98% of the time. Maybe she feels like you are not open to exploring things, holidays, weekend breaks, visits etc.

Girls like to say they've done things, been places, whereas blokes aren't really bothered as much. She might even see your new motor as you focusing your priorities wrongly i.e. "he's just spent all that money on a fancy car so there's no chance of a holiday this year" - see what I mean?

*returns Brain to Male-mode and continues the day.

[Bailes1992]

Haven't really made any financial risk as I paid it all cash. I want her to come to holland in Sept but shes not up for it. Really hoping she will spare some time for me this weekend.

[scotty73]

Female welly really does have some good points there i was thinking a bit like that yesterday but wern't sure how to say it, especially the part about girls like to say they've been there done that.

Since me and the mrs have been together every now and then she'd say aww i'd love to go abroad even if it's just to say i've been... Those words are met by a shrug of my shoulders and a "dont bother me".... How she aint gone on her own yet i really dont know

My philosophy has always been do you want 10 holidays in the caravan a year or 1 in spain every two years?.... Anyway this obviously doesn't apply to you just tight f*cks like me.

[Welly]

Women also like "something to look forward to"

That booked train ticket, Hotel, Meal, Show or whatever is the male equivalent of a stainless-steel manifold.

[scotty73]

Women also like "something to look forward to"

That booked train ticket, Hotel, Meal, Show or whatever is the male equivalent of a stainless-steel manifold.

Talking train tickets i had the cold shoulder last night my mate is booking me a ticket to Anglsey from thursday to Saturday for a 2 day fishing boozathon.... well it's not my fault you forgot to book Friday off love so we could all go for the weekend now is it?

Some of us are just selfish bastards.

[Doggy]

Female welly really does have some good points......

Puggy would lurve this.

[puggy]

I'm Watching !!! welly does seem to be seriously in touch with his
feminine side , to the point where the words " closet out of " come to mind.
I think it's something along the lines of a mid life crisis as regards welly , he is struggling
between his hetrosexual ways and a possible slide to the darkside , happens in advancing years
i managed to miss it as i was having phsyciatric treatment at the time (and still doing so )


Sam sorry to hear you are having a few relationship problems , i wont comment as i dont
wish to offend just to say i hope things work out ok .

[highlander]

struggling between his hetrosexual ways and a possible slide to the darkside , happens in advancing years i managed to miss it as i was having phsyciatric treatment at the time

BREAKING NEWS: Old farts turn gay without psychiatric treatment

[Welly]

No I couldn't be a gayer, just catching my reflection lately of an ageing, balding, stocky man is more than enough to put me off and if you could imagine the state of my arse of late during my current obsession with experimental Asian cookery you would not want to go near it with a broom handle let alone anything else.

[scotty73]

if you could imagine the state of my arse of late during my current obsession with experimental Asian cookery you would not want to go near it with a broom handle let alone anything else.

You could always be the batsman and not the wicket keeper.

[steve_earwig]

I thought modern metrosexual men were meant to be in touch with their feminine side Or have I been driving the RAV for too long?

I'm kind of with Puggy on the girlfriend thing, as we're blokes talking about a female we're genetically predisposed to get it wrong. You could do nothing, you could lavish her with gifts and/or trips to countries where the sun shines, you could ask her straight out - it'll be wrong, whatever you do.

[puggy]

Totally agree !!